a friend's guide

assalamualaikum,

i know i am very conservative, and i am someone who would tell someone that their doing is wrong. i would not do this if i dont love and care for them. i know i dont have the right, i am not their mother or any of their family members and i am just a friend. A friend who wants to lead and guide her friend to the real path.

i know no one wants to hear that their doing is wrong, but someone has just got to tell. the truth hurts but that is just the way it is. it will give more impact and helps u to become a better person. me alone is not perfect i need someone to remind me too if i do something wrong, then i know who is my real friend. a friend who takes care of me and remind me my mission of life, to live to the fullest as wat Allah like.

it reminds me of a story of a man, his child was playing with their neighbour's son. then the neighbour's son did something wrong. than he came to him and spoke to him wat he did was wrong. then the neighbour overheard and got made because he got the nerves to speak like dat to someone's child.

the neighbour confronted him. and said you would not do that if he is your son and the man replied, no because i treat him like my son because of that i treat him like dat.

i hope you understand. you see if we care for someone, it hurts to see them to d bad things. dont let them be astray. you see when they regret their doings they might blame u because u did not stop them.

dont say " i was afraid u will get mad". but madness only last awhile but love not love, it will last longer. before it is too late, than regretting it later.

wassalam,

tip of the day,
if u think ur fren or someone is doing something wrong, speak up, because u love them.
but do it better not scolding them.