dating

assalamualaikum,

this topic is not something new, not to be hypocrite i am also dating someone and i pray to Allah Subhanahu Wataala to bless me and also to shield and protect me from setan and also my nafsu. Actually I am glad that my lover is far from me (distance relationship) because this somehow protects me..Alhamdulillah.

now dating is common to youngsters, it is hard not to fall in love this days and we are swept away by the fantasy of love create by the media ..especially movies and drama. those touching and hugging and more (they call it expressing the love) .. to me saying the love is good enough.

you see we can do this hugging and touching when we get married.. you can wait for this.
setan likes when ur doing this haram things..i bet they are saying now they are one of us (would you want to be setan) ... NO!!!!!!

there is nothing wrong waiting, if u can not wait..then just get married (it is ok!!), this is most purest thing to do, u r completing part of iman and also u can do what ur nafsu wants to do... and its HALAL and also setan will be crying because they dont like it when it comes to marriage.

but somehow society or surrounding makes it hard for us to do this, they said have a job, make yourself stable first...

marriage is one of our obligation as a muslim and by doing this insyaAllah Allah will help you get through this temporary world. just do'a all the time and do what Allah tells you to do and dont do the things that Allah forbids.

wassalam,

tip of the day, remember Allah every second of your life