a reminder for me

purification of heart

2009-10-29T23:36:00.000-07:00

bismillahirrahmanirrahim,

assalamualaikum and peace be upon the Prophet Muhammad sallahualaihi wassalam.

alhamdulillah to Allah subhanallah for His Mercy. My prayers may Allah keep me in this straight path and protect my family, relatives, friends and mukmin/nats from hell fire and may Allah grant us peace in our hearts. this is a reminder for me

purifying the heart is not easy nor hard, inshaAllah. then what is it? it depends how u think, determination than inshaAllah, Allah will make it easier. and puring your heart the actions must not only from inside but outside. I mean your intention has to go along with your actions.

your heart is the most sensitif part in body and soul. as a hadith saying by Prophet Muhammad s.a.w

Surely there is in the body a small piece of flesh; if it is good, the whole body is good, and if it is corrupted, the whole body is corrupted, and that is surely the heart.

to my understanding of the hadith is not just metaphorical but also literally. subhanallah Allah is the Most Wise.

puring your heart is by putting your intention purely for Allah subhanahu wataa'la. when you have your niat (intention) purely for Allah. InshaAllah will guide you, so that you will be able to distinct between good and bad, halal and haram. you will try to do and think consciously of your actions just for Allah's sake.

your action must also equal to your niat. there should no contradictory between niat and actions. such as Robin Hood. there is always a good way to do good. unless that is the last resort. as I said when you do for Allah's sake inshaAllah your action will not contradicts.

if it contradicts we have to question again our intention, is it purely for Allah, are we ikhlas to Allah?

our surrounding also affects our purification, what we see, listen and what we do with our mouth. especially living in the West they are so many aurat on the road. then there is music and nice tempting food. all of these are needed for our nafs. so therefore in puring our heart we have to control our nafs. dont say these things out there are out of control. we can control!!!

we can lower our gaze when looking at maksiat, we can shut our eyes, we move our sight to trees and flowers maybe to cars too. our ears can be protect by listening to quran, listening to lectures and others that will remind you of Allah.

be cautious in what you do with your mouth. try to say nice things. dont provoke people to tell bad things about someone, dont say something your not sure of and dont spread fitnah. do dzikir and salawat. teach something good to the people next to you.

and this is a reminder to me... O Allah make me stay in your path.

rules!!!!!!

2009-04-29T13:17:00.000-07:00

bismillahirrahmanirrahim,

assalamualaikum,

i am still alive, mashaAllah its Allah's blessing to let me live. everthing that were having is a blessing from Allah health and sickness. mashaAllah i just found out something new just now. but the new thing is not new. it was about flies.

i was listening to this lecture from sheikh bilal assad, mashaAllah he is good. he said something about prevention is better than curing, he said asked any doctor what is the best cure? all of them will answer prevention is better than curing ,, and he said ISLAM is the cure.. cause it tells all about prevention, ISLAM teaches prevention, ISLAM provides guidelines for better living in this world through the rules.

well somepeople will said what is life if everything has to be follow by the rules and its oppressive. ok lets wonder which part of ur life is not govern by rules? school, work, trade, services, even gangsters have rules.

but when it comes to Islam, its oppressive and agenda of the west is... lets liberate this muslims?!!! what?!!! who ?!!!

muslims are not liberated?!! muslims are not free?!! well let us defined free?!! free from rules?!!
as i said earlier, rules are everywhere.. ok lets see... if muslims are ...as the west call ' free'.
when muslims are free... but they are still rules out there they have to obey.. so therefore they are still not free...

some muslims like the rules.. muslims believe and have faith in these rules.. it is the rules from the Divine, Allah the Almighty. the Creator who loves His creations.. Allah's love is more than a mother's love. Allah has given us how to live from the day we were born until the day we die. our parents cant guide us the whole way.. of our life journey... sometimes we have to be far away from them.. but Allah is always there to guide us through Quran and Rasulullah' sunnah...

i realised sometimes what i wrote is a bit angry... and its from the heart..something has to be out and share with.. but please take this in a good way... and please remind if it has gove over the limit.. its the responsibility of muslims to remind each other...

assalamualaikum

amal ma'ruf nahi mungkar

2009-03-24T19:09:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

i have been holding the title above since i know the surah Al-Asr

03. Surah Al-Asr (The Time)

1. By Al-'Asr (the time).

2. Verily! Man is in loss,

3. Except those who believe (in Islamic Monotheism) and do righteous good deeds, and recommend one another to the truth (i.e. order one another to perform all kinds of good deeds (Al-Ma'ruf)which Allah has ordained, and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds (Al-Munkar)which Allah has forbidden), and recommend one another to patience (for the sufferings, harms, and injuries which one may encounter in Allah's Cause during preaching His religion of Islamic Monotheism or Jihad, etc.).

surah ini sangat mendalam kepada diri ana. kerana ia menceritakan tanggungjawab manusia di dunia ini... bahawa kita ini hidup dlm kerugian jikalo tidak ingat mengingati sama sendiri dlm membuat kebajikan.. surah ini menyuruh kita membuat kebajikan and membuat kebajikan ini ialah mengajak org membuat yg ma'ruf dan melarang dari mungkar..

ini menunjukkan kita ada tanggungjawab untuk menegur org ketika dia lupa akan Allah dan membuat mungkar. memang this is responsibility yg berat... apatah hidup di seberang ...senang saja org membuat mungkar... memikirkan tanggungjawab ini rasa heavy sgt.

kita takut sgt untuk menegur org kerana kita tidak suka ditegur.. if they know teguran is good for them as Allah berfirman 2:216

...... tetapi boleh jadi kamu tidak menyenangi sesuatu padahal itu baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi kamu meyukai sesuatu, padahal itu tidak baik bagimu. Allah mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahui.

MasyaAllah.. we look the world around us... we have been influenced by the west. how they make things fun and likeable, yet it is not good...

example .. smoking... relaxing... not good for health,
party... fun excitement... encourages pergaulan bebas....may lead to drinking, sex, unplanned marriage and pregnancy..., there are lots to say.... and i know we can think of it

thinks u may not like but it is good for u... is majlis ilmu.. yup could be boring but will bring you closer to Allah and prevent urself from disobeying Allah...

salam....

ur path?

2009-02-10T15:26:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum wbt,

open your eyes!!! observe and think!!! look and see where u standing!!!

as a reminder for me, to open my eyes and be conscious what am I doing. it is hard to live in this modern world where music, movies, tv, sports, sex and drugs is becoming normal. people talking about it as this why we live in this world.

when we try to talk about religion it is so easy for people to reject it but when we reject something like sports, music, sex and drugs we become a social outcast. why is that happening?!!! when talking about something good it is so easy people to reject but when talking something that is bad it is easy to accept it... they accept so readily and easily make joke of it...

music and sports is now the thing of the world and not forgetting people's obsession in becoming famous... this things are killing the society... u may not see this until you go deeper and try to open your eyes and heart.

the music full of sex messages and sports that shows sponsors from entertainment industry, beer that most of them promote sex and drinking.. and that does not give important messages..

try to look where you stand, i mean which path are you going ? world or akhirat? entertainment or Allah's way? halal or haram?

ask this question to urself day and night, every second... and the most important question am I ready to meet my Creator? because you dont know when ur day will come...

this is just a question... for me and u...

ps..... goodnite,,, maybe it could be ur last day

doing work

2009-01-18T17:18:00.001-08:00

my people

2009-01-11T05:14:00.000-08:00

bismillahirahmanirrahim,

apology to people who reads my blog.. because it has been a while i have not blogged... due to techinacalites and nothing to write..

but alhamdulillah Allah has given be the strength now ... GAZA my sisters and brothers.

well as a muslim, every muslim is our brother and sister, we all know that.. but it seems that we do not see this happening . we do not see muslim states unite together.. we just say condolences to the affected country. wallahuaklam

our brothers and sisters in palestine have suffered enough.. for 60 years.. that is like 3 generations. how many muslims know this? how many people know the GAZA conflict does not happen recently? how many people know this?!!!

well i cannot lie, i was one of them myself. as i get closer to Islam, everything was clear to me. i was blinded with my comfortable couch of a peaceful country. i was not aware of the suffering of other muslims. i was not a muslim... i had fun and joyful life and do not care and ignore the people who suffered.

now living outside my peaceful country, it broaden my views of being a muslim, real muslim not a malay muslim... i see so much brotherhood living outside my country. they are just true muslim unlike some muslim i know, who just does not want to burst their bubble and step out.

islam teaches us to be compassionate to our brothers and sisters. this makes me feel guilty of myself, what is happening in GAZA. i am really sad the fact that i can eat when i am hungry and sleep peacefully whereas people in GAZA have to stay hungry and cannot sleep peacefully because of the war and there is possibility they will be attacked.

Ya Allah , give them strength and give them Jannah as they are more closer to You than I am... and O Allah give me strength as I am weak and I know cannot handle the situation if I were in their shoes,,,,

our polluted mind

2008-10-23T15:36:00.000-07:00

bismillahirrahmanirrahim,

assalamualaikum,

i was just watching tv and i was really amazed how our mind it really polluted by western ideas especially ladies. i was watching all this beauty/health/fashion related tv shows mostly reality.

one of this tv shows 'how to look good naked' told about this lady needed to have a makeover.. she is a thin girl who covers her body with baggy clothes. the stylist totally manipulate about her having a nice body and should not cover it. you should show your asset.. how thin and small boobs still can be attractive.

and then another one but different version, about this flabby girl... and her half naked body was shown on street for people to see and comment about it. people commented her having a nice curvywavy body.. also known as hot....

i mean i see myself as someone paranoid about my own weight. i see myself fat and where some people keep telling how fat i look and i need to diet, i tell you i am trying to diet but....

ok forget about me... from my point of view this is how the kafirs wants us to think... to think like them ...from our paranoia of weight... they said no matter what is ur weight ur beautiful.. basiccally all girls want to be and feel beautiful... from watching this kind of makeover drama we might be carried away by the transformation.. so then we kinda ended like them flashing our skin and wearing tight clothing to show our body...

why we wanna do this? for self esteem? we dont need clothes that doesnot cover our aurat to boost our self esteem... insyaAllah when u have Allah and iman u will have all the things in the world..masyaAllah....

i think it is just ridiculous to where sexy clothes especially the wants showing their cleavage.. i dont know their intentions of wearing such clothes but obviously to show... but then when people stare at it they get mad.. it doesnt make sense..

i am not saying we neglect our care for beauty.. we need to take care of what Allah gives us... the body, it is an amanah that Allah gives us. but we should not use it for the wrong intentions... i.e for boys.. trying to attract them... astagfirullah... nauzubillah.

we take care of our body because of Allah and we only show to our mahram and spouses.

wassalam

ramadhan has past and now is syawal

2008-10-03T23:54:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

alhamdulillah that Allah has given me strength to finish my ramadhan and i hope to meet and feel more the next ramadhan, insyaAllah. i once heard that if u feel truely (khusyu') the ramadhan and changed into a better person insyaAllah when ramadhan is over.. u will still be the person that you changed into.

syawal.. or hari raya aidilfitri to malays... is the most anticipated holidays for children and adults. most of us have good memories in this month since the day you start remember things until now. where we basically have fun and strenghten our ukhuwah.

though we are having fun try not forget ur obligation to your creator. because of Allah u receive all of this.

wassalam

ramadhan's environment

2008-09-16T20:11:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

alhamdulillah we have reached the middle of ramadhan, it is a blessing from Allah we are able to fast. Ramadhan is full with fadhilat and you can also gain pahala easily. as a reminder to me and to you all, please take full advantage of the Holy month of Ramadhan because wallahuakhlam it might be your last one.

as a muslim we shud be really happy and celebrate ramadhan more than syawal. it is sad to see that especially in Malay countries where hari raya is celebrated bigger than ramadhan. what is sad is that we tend to spend more on unnecessary things in ramadhan for hari raya. buying new furnitures, more than one baju kurung... u know what i mean. as if our religion is teaching us to be materialistic. not only this, hari raya songs are like everywhere.. and this was the 2nd day of ramadhan.

once i was told by my MALAY teacher i think when i was in my primary 6, he told about life in Ramadhan during the old days. he said during the day.. every masjid will read the Quran on the speaker for the daylight and from this u can imagine u can hear Quran recital everywhere.. MasyaAllah.. but now you can only hear terawih which is only during the night. and this is like the whole of ramadhan. but now it is just sad really sad...

i would like the tradition to continue... atleast we will not hear music that will give headaches and lovy duvy stuff.. yucks.. that makes us forgot about Allah.

ramadhan and solat

2008-09-01T09:22:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

alhamdulillah, we meet again our favourite month of the year a long awaited month and missed ramadhan. i feel great masyaAllah that i am going to fast and meeting ramadhan again. i hope this ramadhan we all will be blessed and protected by Allah subhanahu wataala.

brunei is a country of peace. living abroad has made me think differently about our my country. we are very lucky that we are able to practice islam freely and so do other religion. i mean other countries they are free but sometimes its hard.

for example doing the solat, in Brunei we have masjids all over the place and so we have no reasons to miss solat. and it is kinda hard for u not to forget also... i mean since masjids are everywhere, you can basically here the adhan. even the malls have surau or prayer room.

whereas like other countries especially muslims are still one of the minorities, it is kinda hard to do your solat. sometimes you have to do in public not in a closed area... but all of these do not matter at all because Allah owns the world.

i believe the phrase when there is a will there is a way... i have listen or someone i know will have reasons to miss solat... such as dirty, not used to the place or busy and etc. and then they will say they will just qadha it....

sorry... but i think and i learned that qadha is when u forgot i mean you do not remember or maybe u felt asleep .. then you can qadha.. but i do not see any reasons that was listed above somehow the same or related. please correct me if i am wrong... but this is was i learned from my religious school.

since this is the month of ramadhan, where all the muslims are going to fast insyaAllah... and fasting is the third in the five pillar of islam (rukun islam). it comes after solat... so it means your solat comes before your puasa.

wassalam

part 3 - chinese girl

2008-06-16T02:13:00.000-07:00

main girl - hannah, chinese revert to islam

outside the library of her library and met her friends.. siti and hafeezah. the did not know that she has reverted. they were shocked hannah was there because she did not have any class or lecture on that day.

so hafeezah asked why are you here? so hannah said i have a course. i am learning islam because i reverted to islam 3 days ago.

both of them were shocked, they knew she was interested in their religion but did not expected her to actually converted then, hannah continued talking,

i have a question since you both are born muslim any i am just starting to know islam.
i just learned about aurat, my ustazah said we must protect our aurat as a muslim, being modest and insyaAllah to get Allah's blessing and get protection from Allah. I learned our aurat is the whole body except our face and the hands ( no arms included). and even between muslimah we have aurat it is from above the belly button below the knee. the ustazah also said we have to protect our sight from looking others aurat.

the question is since you are born muslim. how do i avoid looking at your aurat now? ( her friends were wearing mini skirts and shirts showing belly button)

to be continue....

part 2..of the story

2008-06-10T08:11:00.000-07:00

sorry for not updating... now i feel malu ...because of the story... it is a fantaasy... sorry... for any disappoinment..

the story...

i think of the name for the guys udah..

main actor - hazim
friend 1 - khalid
friend 2 - atif
friend 3 (not gang) - firdaus

while the men were talking and talk about stuff... they were this group of girls.. typical girls wearing t-shirt and jeans, and they look at them... khalid and atif think they are hot but hazim did not because he was still thinking about the girl he wants to marry. firdaus just looked for a second and never look again.

Atif realised what firdaus was doing. and then he asked why he did that?.. then firdaus explained that as a muslim we should not see women as a sex symbol... by doing that i am respecting them and protecting my sight.. and Allah give us sight to see His creation and praise his creation and not to fulfill our desire... because in the Hereafter all of our body parts will be our witness for our doings and we cannot defend ourself..and he continued looking at them will just give me more sin and will also give them more sin..

and then hazim overheard them and ask then how we will find a wife if we are like that? firdaus explained...each of us is destined to have a partner and Allah is the only one knows how we will end up... we just have to pray and do our best to search for the right one...

hazim asked again... how we want to find if we cant look at them?

firdaus answered well in an islamic way if u have found someone.. u can ask for marriage.. before u do that u can do taaruf.. where u try to know each other in the presence of family...

then atif said.. and then u get married ..that is not enough.. why dont date first..i mean just the two of them

firdaus said... that is haram... eventhough you have good intention there will always be setan as the the third person and will try to lure you to do more haram... and to think of it ..the things dat u do in dating and marriage is all the same ... it isjust more commitment and then the big difference is one is halal and another is haram... so why take the haram when the halal will have the same gain...and even more gain with Allah's blessing...

to be continue...

making a story

2008-05-31T10:08:00.001-07:00

assalamualaikum,

well i just got an inspiration in making a story... we see how i can make it, well i have to think of the characters. well the story is about a man in his late 20's and still finding for the right girl, he had girlfriends though he loved them but they were not wife material. he is a young successful person and likes to hang out with his friends at cafe's .

one day while hanging out with couple of his friends, he said to them that he wants to get married and have family life and his fantasies of having family. but the problem was to find the other half. he wants to have a stable family.

he wants his wife to be, religious and very wife material. his friends were so curious ( like his ex girl friends were sexy... if you got what i mean).

then all of a sudden a friend who was not part of the gang greeted them and ask how were they doing, and then they told them that someone wants to get married and wants a solehah wife.

the friend said... InsyaAllah you will get a wife.. because Allah have destined us to be in pairs. And the pair has to be like you to... if there is Ali then there will be Fatimah.

the three guys were confused. so he explained.. it is just to be fair that for a good man will have a good girl and soleh man will have solehah wife. it is like Saiditina Fatimah for Saidina Ali.

to be continue.....

have questions

2008-05-20T13:49:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

alhamdulillah Allah has begun me an idea what to write, i met a friend this afternoon... usually i only have small talk with her but then we end up at her room. we talked lots of stuff. one of it was how life as a muslim is different from a born muslim and a convert.

from there we discovered that mostly we(born muslim) accept islam as a culture not a religion. islam is a religion of knowledge. it is ok to ask questions. when you asked questions it makes you think and then u will realised insyaAllah...all the signs and answers are actually out there. because of this, a christian convert to islam because in islam we can ask(confused with trinity).

well alhamdulillah i think i learnt more about islam and practice it. i tend to ask questions and alhamdulillah the answers were always there... , it is either the observable or unobservable.

wassalam.
it is ok to ask!!!

what i learned

2008-05-08T03:52:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

alhamdulillah i like my life, people may assumed that i dont like my life because i restrict my life so much, i mean it is my choice, if these people are so worry for me, please tgur aku if i do bad stuff but not d good stuff.

i learned that most of us, mostly people born into Islam and which the Islam has been adapted to fit in the culture, dont know the true islam. this people just take pieces that they like and not take it as a whole.

islam is a way of life. Allah has given a way to live but why we choose?

living abroad teaches me to be independent. it helps me to strengthen my principle. here... it teaches me more about life than studying..( i do study). the surrounding here are mostly the donts like drinking and people sleeping together.

my parents are not here, they are not watching me. i can do anything i want but there is one eye i cannot escape, its Allah. He sees the outside and inside of us. our doings and niat.

when the world is over and u meet Allah, u cant defend urself for ur doings. its your hands and legs , the body parts. this body parts watches everyting u do. and then there will be Malaikat giving a list and proves of ur doings... they're not ur lawyer, they're ur witness and not bias.
and then Allah say, I watched you myself doing all of this.

how can u answer that?

wassalam,

tip of the day,
ur life is watched every single second.

2008-05-03T01:35:00.001-07:00

assalamualaikum,

i just realised that everytime i feel free, feel no burden on my shoulders and i think i did on dat day when i go to sleep, i alway imagined i was running smoothly nothing was ahead no obstacles for me to attempt, i see myself running with the wind. i dont know why is dat.

then lastnite it came to me dat life is like running. when u run, u dont know wat is ahead of u. u wont know wat are the obstacles u have to face whether it is a big or small. when u run u might get lost, fall or go through a river, hanging bridge or others.

this is like life too. there might be time in ur life u will be lost, lost of anykind. when u found out u were lost, then u will find the right way. in real life, u might be lost finding urself identity and u are trying to find one. lost in darkness and the only light dat can save u is ur faith.

same as when u fall, if u fall u dont stay and wait der unless it is severe but i know that everytime u fall u will always try to stand and when u could do dis u will try to run again. life can be like dis too, u fall and den dont give up, because u might still have the chance to stand.

in the road obstacles like twigs, river, hanging bridge or others could present the real life. small things could be small problem. big things could be big problem. these obstacles u have to face and solve it.

and the road you take. when ur running u have to plan where u want to go , which path and direction you have to follow. so do life, there is no such things as i will go where the wind blows. we have to plan, when u plan u know which direction and u know ur destination. real life same thing. plan wat u want to be. be a muslim, then the direction is Islam and the destination is Allah.

wassalam.

tip of the day,

life is like running

a friend's guide

2008-04-27T21:40:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

i know i am very conservative, and i am someone who would tell someone that their doing is wrong. i would not do this if i dont love and care for them. i know i dont have the right, i am not their mother or any of their family members and i am just a friend. A friend who wants to lead and guide her friend to the real path.

i know no one wants to hear that their doing is wrong, but someone has just got to tell. the truth hurts but that is just the way it is. it will give more impact and helps u to become a better person. me alone is not perfect i need someone to remind me too if i do something wrong, then i know who is my real friend. a friend who takes care of me and remind me my mission of life, to live to the fullest as wat Allah like.

it reminds me of a story of a man, his child was playing with their neighbour's son. then the neighbour's son did something wrong. than he came to him and spoke to him wat he did was wrong. then the neighbour overheard and got made because he got the nerves to speak like dat to someone's child.

the neighbour confronted him. and said you would not do that if he is your son and the man replied, no because i treat him like my son because of that i treat him like dat.

i hope you understand. you see if we care for someone, it hurts to see them to d bad things. dont let them be astray. you see when they regret their doings they might blame u because u did not stop them.

dont say " i was afraid u will get mad". but madness only last awhile but love not love, it will last longer. before it is too late, than regretting it later.

wassalam,

tip of the day,
if u think ur fren or someone is doing something wrong, speak up, because u love them.
but do it better not scolding them.

missing you

2008-04-27T05:52:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

for a few days i kept remembering a Raihan's song from their first album - Rayuan rindu. i heard d song first time when i was still a child. i didint understand what it meant. i cant believed that i actually remember some of the lyrics. well i got d full lyrics now..hehehe. it is a very nice song. A song about our feeling of love and missing Allah and Rasulullah (pbuh). without realising that d song actually made an impact of my life from my childhood until now. Alhamdulillah, what a greatest gift that Allah gives me without realising it. A song about Him and his messenger.

Hatiku merayu rindu
Kasihku pada-Mu syahdu
Munajat hamba padamu
Mengharap kasih sayang-Mu

Carilah ilmu mengenal Allah
Tanamkan takut neraka Allah
Semaikan harap syurga Allah
Carilah keredhaan Allah

Rinduku ya Rasullullah
Padamu ya Habiballah
Engkaulah buah hatiku
Engkaulah kekasih Allah

Alangkah indah peribadimu
Tidak tergambar mulia akhlakmu
engkaulah rasul pilihan Allah
Bawa rahmat seluruh alam

My heart is loving You
My heart is just for You
Knowing You... Allah
I will try to get close to You

Let us find the way to know our God
Feel the tortures of hell's fire
Think of pleasures of paradise
Find the way to get Allah's love

Hatiku merayu rindu
Kasihku pada-Mu syahdu
Bertemu Allah yang Esa
Menjadi idaman kalbu

wassalam.

tip of the day,

a song for you and me

love letter

2008-04-22T14:06:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

when u get love letter from ur lover, u will read with all ur heart and with ur feeling. u will try to read over2 again and never get sick of it. well do u read letter from ur forever lover? i mean forever lover is Allah ur creator, d One that gives u rezeki and knows ur every problem. the One that will always be der for u when no one does.

do u read Allah love letter for u? Allah sent d Quran via d messenger the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is for us, Allah's creation and lover. so dat we do not mislead from the real path. but yet we dont read the Quran as it is from our forever lover, we just read as it is just a book and we just put it on top of our shelves and not disturb it.

why do we do dat? our creator loves us but our actions reflect that as if we dont love Allah. the love letter dat Allah gives u, u made as if it from someone who likes u but u dont like them back. this is Allah, ur creator. please think and reflect.

the love letter from ur lover(human) cannot help u during judgement day and sakratul maut but the love letter from Allah will, insyaAllah.

wassalam.

be concscious

2008-04-12T09:38:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

every step and everything you do although little things you do are watched by Allah Subhanahu Wataala, though you want to hide from the world and how good you hide it you can not escape from Allah Subhanahu Wataala.

just be conscious for your doings, if your not conscious your regret it later so before its too late please remind urself. i know when u like something and happy u'll forget all the problems of the world, i am not stopping you from being happy ... if you want to have fun ..have fun as Allah likes it.

dont forget ur obligation to Allah as this world is only temporary as the hereafter is permanent. you dont know when you will die? yes enjoy urlife but make sure wat ur enjoying last forever, it gives peace in ur heart, happiness of life and make sureur doings are blessed by Allah insyaAllah ur life will be meaningful.

wassalam,

tip of the day, be conscious for the rest of your life

dating

2008-04-07T16:13:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

this topic is not something new, not to be hypocrite i am also dating someone and i pray to Allah Subhanahu Wataala to bless me and also to shield and protect me from setan and also my nafsu. Actually I am glad that my lover is far from me (distance relationship) because this somehow protects me..Alhamdulillah.

now dating is common to youngsters, it is hard not to fall in love this days and we are swept away by the fantasy of love create by the media ..especially movies and drama. those touching and hugging and more (they call it expressing the love) .. to me saying the love is good enough.

you see we can do this hugging and touching when we get married.. you can wait for this.
setan likes when ur doing this haram things..i bet they are saying now they are one of us (would you want to be setan) ... NO!!!!!!

there is nothing wrong waiting, if u can not wait..then just get married (it is ok!!), this is most purest thing to do, u r completing part of iman and also u can do what ur nafsu wants to do... and its HALAL and also setan will be crying because they dont like it when it comes to marriage.

but somehow society or surrounding makes it hard for us to do this, they said have a job, make yourself stable first...

marriage is one of our obligation as a muslim and by doing this insyaAllah Allah will help you get through this temporary world. just do'a all the time and do what Allah tells you to do and dont do the things that Allah forbids.

wassalam,

tip of the day, remember Allah every second of your life

advice

2008-03-29T08:36:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

for someone to follow the advices we give we should also do the thing we advice them, dont be seperti ketam menyuruh anaknya bejalan betul - english translation - dont be like crab who tells their own children to walk straight(i hope that make sense)

action speaks louder than words- this phrase is very powerful and it really applies to real world. when u see a leader saying something but doing it in another way round, you will basically not like this leader.. so this applies to giving advice too. when u give advice make sure ur doing wat ur saying too.

this is wat i want to be, a person who does the speaking and act. i am learning and also a human being i am also a person who has flaws and i hope insyaAllah i would like to improve myself to be a better person.

tip of the day, dont speak only, but act.

wassalam.

life

2008-03-26T10:20:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

i dunno wat i wanna say anymore. i hope i am this a person who does thing according to the Quran and Sunnah, i wanna to display my religion from me. to be this it is hard .. i have lots of obstacles in this dunia... especially when shetan is around.. making you astray from the right path.

islam is a way of life... it teaches and guides everything wat we do.. from we wake up till we sleep again... we have doa for everything and even just kalimah bismillahirahmanirrahim is good enough. islam is me not just a part of me.

tip of the day, choose a life that would take you a whole life happiness and also the here after.

recommended movie

2008-03-12T08:19:00.002-07:00

assalamualaikum,

movies... i am kinda movie lover tpi it seems among my friend d uea aku paling sikit tahu and apatah lagi music. but inda papa kalo pasal melayu aku bulih handal dri durg... and proud of that.. not sayingg durg inda handal it is just i know more ... kali... mcm durg tahu movie and musics more than i do

anywho.. melayu punya movies mikin ok... the ghost stories like jgn pandang belakang, puaka tebing biru and stuff... the love story ntah ah.. mcm plot ceta cinta mikin kan sama saja... mcm cinta pandangan pertama ... first love and stuff and it is getting dull.

well, i have a story that is really nice, it is an indonesian movie it is not like the crappy love stories of my heart, love is cinta and by the way aku alum liat ceta ani hehe.
i watched yg shandy aulia movies...but still those mcm crappy love stories.

the one i m recommending is very nice... my opinion..well ada kissing bit plg. tpi d jln ceta was really good... i think every bit of the story and moral and nasihat..

the movie is ayat- ayat cinta.

love it.

tip of the day... watch the movie

wassalam

recommended movie

2008-03-12T08:19:00.001-07:00

teaching wat u know

2008-03-10T02:46:00.000-07:00

assalamualaikum,

this topic remind me of a hadis or an al-quran verse, i dont remember but wat i understand was that if u have knowledge and u have to share it with other people dont be karit with knowledge. i mean ilmu yg berguna pada kita, masyarakat, dunia dan akhirat,

some people will know and some people might dont know, so therefore we as human and muslim we are obliged to share our knowledge to help people. before you teach someone .. u have to to know the ilmu bnr2 pasal supaya the person yg u bagi ilmu inda keliru and inda sasat.

we can sebarkan ilmu in many ways... u can sebarkan ilmu every seconds of ur life... if ur creative. and ur niat is to bagi ilmu arah urg. jgn niat atu yg slah. talking about ways... i have bee receiving a lot of chain mail... and it is veery useful but i dont like yg at the end ada if u dont send this to 10 people or etc something bad will happen,, sort of something like dat..

i believed that Allah is the only one that do this not chain mail or letters,,, wat i do to the ones dat is useful i will delete the end the if u send this to.....bla bla... den i send to people.... and it is up to them whether to read it and forward it.... wat i know is dat i hope dat i am doing my obligation to share wat i know dat might be useful to everyone

tip of the day.... share ur knowledge

knowing ur trueself

2008-03-04T15:45:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

i think i am getting bored of blogging. i think... hehehe

in each of us we have our own interest.. i am easily interested and also easily get bored... i mean that is my life.. i think... but one think for sure ... i dont want to lose interest in my life though i am easily bored with stuff... maybe it is just how i make my life interesting.. hahaha

knowing ur true self? hmmm... a question that many people still finding the answer. it is all about questioning urself... wat do u wanna be? am i following or replicating sum1 else? who do i look up to? there are lots of questions u ask urself and u are the one who knows1 the answers to these questions

some people are lucky they know the answer a bit earlier than others and some people a bit late. so it depends..the most important thing is dat... u question urself am i happy with my life now?
u might say happiness will come later.. but the question is now and not later!

if later comes than u will regret the time u had. and u did not actually live ur life fullest.
there are lots of stories about people searching their trueself... than most of it ( based on true stories) found in religion and mostly they found in islam... for example yusof islam

living fullest doesnot mean trying stuff like durgs, drinking and stuff... feel and see and experience everything... you have to know which is bad and good so u will not regret later... and that is living fullest.. not to regret wat u had done

tip of the day..
question ur self to find ur true self...

love

love

2008-02-29T14:31:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

i was wondering about love just now. what is the definition of love? how do u love some1? why does some1 love u? this is questions selalu we cari the jwapan dlm movies tpi different movies different explaination, so we dont really know the answer.

to me love is a feeling, it is rasa sayang it doesnt mean your lover it can be anyone. well has different kind. for family, lover, friends and others but the important love of all is love for Allah and Rasulullah.

some1 told me that friends are family that you choose.

hate is the opposite of love, and hate is not good...and plus setan suka.

one thing i sure know about love is that yg Allah syg all of us. and Rasulullah jua... deep nya cinta Rasulullah kan umat sgt lah dlm even before baginda meninggal he said three times umatku...

tip of the day.

cinta?!....hehehe... try to love every1 and everything

people

2008-02-28T05:47:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

i just finished all my write ups for this weekend. it is kinda hectic this weekend: organising international party and also my work. this week taught me a lot about people especially friendship.
this week i had so many ups and downs and i am lucky that my friends were there for me, listening to me complaining or fussing.

this week also taught me about teamwork. contribution of people in giving labor whether they do it voluntarily or involuntarily. it teach me so much and made think how people think. some people are really good in comprimizing their study and other stuff. some people have courtesy and some not but yet this makes the world round, full of colours.

we see people the ones we dont know, we somehow tend to think they think like us, in fact this is not true... if we are alike i.e think alike there wont be goth, punk or others. try to open with this differences but not absorb, if u want to absorb it take the good part not the bad ones.

tip of the day or week,
the cover is as important as it is in the inside...
hehehe

parents

2008-02-22T10:08:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

a new weekend dtg and i am going to my frens place, yeha.

just now i went to the city with my guy frens and we had such a different experience. we met with this guy and ia bckp inda btantu.. and he asked me why aku btudung. he said nda jua papa liat kan rambut. i dont want to elaborate it... it just make me sasak psl jawapan ku inda cukup bernas.

and masa kan balik ke uni while inside the bus aku becakap wiv kwn ku ani... and aku ceta pasal seta sadih and i cried. it is a lame... to cry for ur own story and we talk about parents.. and i so miss my family.
my dad birthday on the 23rd of february the national day of brunei. selamat hari k bangsaan brunei and happy bday day... i will always love you and cherish u ... u r d best.. u and mom made the way i am now.. and i am really happy the way i am... i am not one of the people who is still searching for an identity and i know who i am and my identity. and i am proud of myself and i hope u guys are proud of me too,

i cherished my parents a lot. they are my role model. they brought all of us,, my 5 other sibling into a better person. you both has given us everything and prepared everything for us so that we are able to survive into the world and so that kami nda lost and d makan dunia yg hari semakin hari makin gelap. gelap yang membuat kan manusia buta melihat benda yg nyata yg hanya dpt lihat dari cahaya hati yg bersih

and aku berharap aku dpt melihat dunia ini dgn cahaya hati yg bersih dan tidak tengelam ke dalam dunia yg gelap. Amin.

tip of the day. bersih kan hati anda

wassalam

time

2008-02-19T09:20:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

i had my test today, i hope i did good, Amin..., doa kan aku.

as usual i have nothing much to say. and today as usual nothing much to do. i just went to school and then went home. i cooked for my dinner /lunch. nice i ate vegetable and prawn.

i was just looking at the blogs that belongs to other people. it is kinda cool updating stuff about your own life. it is kinda a journal. when i was young i did have a diary and i wanted to do it because it looks fun when i watched people on tv often do it, especially the teenage girls. i did write but it was only for awhile. i expressed feelings about a boy and about my girl friends.

and now i am really embarassed if i read it again and also i will laugh so much because i did when i was young and it was very childish.

maybe in the future i might look at this and laugh because i will be older and think it is very funny and childish.
through this blog i want to be informative ... i hope,,, insyaAllah.

tip of the day believe in urself live the fullest of ur time but use the time that as what Allah's wants.

wassalam

remember

2008-02-18T11:29:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

today aku baru balik to my room after staying at my friend's during the weekend. love it...
there is nothing much happened today... it is the same usual things that i do during the weekdays. AYO ke skolah !!! hehe veing enthusiast

i just remember what i heard long time ago. how long do you spend time for Allah?
you have 24 hours..

1. 8 hours sleeping approximately.
2. maybe 10-12 hours of schooling and studying and working.
3. altogether for your breakfast, lunch, dinner and other eating...is around an hour.

so this is 21hours together maybe..

and we pray 5 times a day is approximately 5 minutes and this times 5 is 25
within 24 hours ...we only spare 25 minutes..

Allah has given us a lot of time and a lot of things whether we realised or not.
is this fair?

tip of the day, think of Allah all the time ...every minute and every second and Allah always remembers all beings He creates.

wassalam,

thinking

2008-02-15T05:40:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

i am really tired pasal lots of assignments to do and to be submitted next week and also the week after next week, not just assignments but tests.

ok, i should be at my friends place today because the weekends has started so i will be there the whole weekend. it is really fun to be with them. after the whole weekdays stuck inside the room doing so many work and watched online movies and drama..atleast during the weekend there is something else to do.

before that i have to prioritize myself first. i have to finish my work then i can play... but i can play while working, aint it? hehehhe

i think blog is where you relieve ur stresss... before you ultimately surrender urself to blogging , you have to try praying... it feels good and free after you pray. trust me... insyaAllah.. if you do it in a right way.... with sincerity in ur heart.

i think that was the tip of the day.... ok c ya.

making through the day

2008-02-14T08:17:00.000-08:00

assalamualaikum,

it is hard living today and aslo everyday there is so much obstacles, yg kecil or yg besar. we just have to tempuhi all of this, to survive.

besides I am not really pleased about myself. i questioned myself , am i doing better than i did yesterday? this is the question aku tanya diri ku everyday.

but i dont want to question my takdir because fate happens because apa yg kita sendiri lakukan.
seperti belajar rajin and ur fate is insyaAllah kecemerlangan.

when i read my post ani.... i sound macam aku ani depress but actually i am not.. i am always seen as happy and lucky. as people said happy go lucky.

through my survey or observation, when ur happy everyone around you will happy, insyaAllah.
if you are depress, you might depress kan urg...because we are not selfish creatures like animals. we care about other people's feeling.

tip of the day

be happy and smile always, insyaAllah inside of you will feel free.

living fullest

2008-02-13T12:53:00.001-08:00

Assalamualaikum and Hallo,

living fullest!!! why is my blog's topic is living fullest? kerana setiap hari bangun pagi dari katil yg nyaman aku akan megucap Alhamdulillah. Dengan mengucap kalimah atu i feel grateful to Allah to give me chance untuk hidup selepas mematikan aku.

chance yg Allah bagi ialah untuk kitani buat apa yang Allah suruh dan tidak membuat larangan nya. supaya kitani ada bekalan d akhirat nanti.

well there is a lot youngster or even oldster sekarang ani sambil leka saja... they said still have time. really?

tip of the day.
ask your self everyday, bila aku mati ah? and cukup kah bekalan ku?