a friend's guide

assalamualaikum,

i know i am very conservative, and i am someone who would tell someone that their doing is wrong. i would not do this if i dont love and care for them. i know i dont have the right, i am not their mother or any of their family members and i am just a friend. A friend who wants to lead and guide her friend to the real path.

i know no one wants to hear that their doing is wrong, but someone has just got to tell. the truth hurts but that is just the way it is. it will give more impact and helps u to become a better person. me alone is not perfect i need someone to remind me too if i do something wrong, then i know who is my real friend. a friend who takes care of me and remind me my mission of life, to live to the fullest as wat Allah like.

it reminds me of a story of a man, his child was playing with their neighbour's son. then the neighbour's son did something wrong. than he came to him and spoke to him wat he did was wrong. then the neighbour overheard and got made because he got the nerves to speak like dat to someone's child.

the neighbour confronted him. and said you would not do that if he is your son and the man replied, no because i treat him like my son because of that i treat him like dat.

i hope you understand. you see if we care for someone, it hurts to see them to d bad things. dont let them be astray. you see when they regret their doings they might blame u because u did not stop them.

dont say " i was afraid u will get mad". but madness only last awhile but love not love, it will last longer. before it is too late, than regretting it later.

wassalam,

tip of the day,
if u think ur fren or someone is doing something wrong, speak up, because u love them.
but do it better not scolding them.

missing you

assalamualaikum,

for a few days i kept remembering a Raihan's song from their first album - Rayuan rindu. i heard d song first time when i was still a child. i didint understand what it meant. i cant believed that i actually remember some of the lyrics. well i got d full lyrics now..hehehe. it is a very nice song. A song about our feeling of love and missing Allah and Rasulullah (pbuh). without realising that d song actually made an impact of my life from my childhood until now. Alhamdulillah, what a greatest gift that Allah gives me without realising it. A song about Him and his messenger.

Hatiku merayu rindu
Kasihku pada-Mu syahdu
Munajat hamba padamu
Mengharap kasih sayang-Mu

Carilah ilmu mengenal Allah
Tanamkan takut neraka Allah
Semaikan harap syurga Allah
Carilah keredhaan Allah

Rinduku ya Rasullullah
Padamu ya Habiballah
Engkaulah buah hatiku
Engkaulah kekasih Allah

Alangkah indah peribadimu
Tidak tergambar mulia akhlakmu
engkaulah rasul pilihan Allah
Bawa rahmat seluruh alam

My heart is loving You
My heart is just for You
Knowing You... Allah
I will try to get close to You

Let us find the way to know our God
Feel the tortures of hell's fire
Think of pleasures of paradise
Find the way to get Allah's love

Hatiku merayu rindu
Kasihku pada-Mu syahdu
Bertemu Allah yang Esa
Menjadi idaman kalbu

wassalam.

tip of the day,

a song for you and me

love letter

assalamualaikum,


when u get love letter from ur lover, u will read with all ur heart and with ur feeling. u will try to read over2 again and never get sick of it. well do u read letter from ur forever lover? i mean forever lover is Allah ur creator, d One that gives u rezeki and knows ur every problem. the One that will always be der for u when no one does.

do u read Allah love letter for u? Allah sent d Quran via d messenger the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is for us, Allah's creation and lover. so dat we do not mislead from the real path. but yet we dont read the Quran as it is from our forever lover, we just read as it is just a book and we just put it on top of our shelves and not disturb it.

why do we do dat? our creator loves us but our actions reflect that as if we dont love Allah. the love letter dat Allah gives u, u made as if it from someone who likes u but u dont like them back. this is Allah, ur creator. please think and reflect.

the love letter from ur lover(human) cannot help u during judgement day and sakratul maut but the love letter from Allah will, insyaAllah.

wassalam.

be concscious

assalamualaikum,

every step and everything you do although little things you do are watched by Allah Subhanahu Wataala, though you want to hide from the world and how good you hide it you can not escape from Allah Subhanahu Wataala.

just be conscious for your doings, if your not conscious your regret it later so before its too late please remind urself. i know when u like something and happy u'll forget all the problems of the world, i am not stopping you from being happy ... if you want to have fun ..have fun as Allah likes it.

dont forget ur obligation to Allah as this world is only temporary as the hereafter is permanent. you dont know when you will die? yes enjoy urlife but make sure wat ur enjoying last forever, it gives peace in ur heart, happiness of life and make sureur doings are blessed by Allah insyaAllah ur life will be meaningful.


wassalam,

tip of the day, be conscious for the rest of your life

dating

assalamualaikum,

this topic is not something new, not to be hypocrite i am also dating someone and i pray to Allah Subhanahu Wataala to bless me and also to shield and protect me from setan and also my nafsu. Actually I am glad that my lover is far from me (distance relationship) because this somehow protects me..Alhamdulillah.

now dating is common to youngsters, it is hard not to fall in love this days and we are swept away by the fantasy of love create by the media ..especially movies and drama. those touching and hugging and more (they call it expressing the love) .. to me saying the love is good enough.

you see we can do this hugging and touching when we get married.. you can wait for this.
setan likes when ur doing this haram things..i bet they are saying now they are one of us (would you want to be setan) ... NO!!!!!!

there is nothing wrong waiting, if u can not wait..then just get married (it is ok!!), this is most purest thing to do, u r completing part of iman and also u can do what ur nafsu wants to do... and its HALAL and also setan will be crying because they dont like it when it comes to marriage.

but somehow society or surrounding makes it hard for us to do this, they said have a job, make yourself stable first...

marriage is one of our obligation as a muslim and by doing this insyaAllah Allah will help you get through this temporary world. just do'a all the time and do what Allah tells you to do and dont do the things that Allah forbids.

wassalam,

tip of the day, remember Allah every second of your life