Tuesday, June 10, 2008

part 2..of the story

sorry for not updating... now i feel malu ...because of the story... it is a fantaasy... sorry... for any disappoinment..

the story...

i think of the name for the guys udah..

main actor - hazim
friend 1 - khalid
friend 2 - atif
friend 3 (not gang) - firdaus

while the men were talking and talk about stuff... they were this group of girls.. typical girls wearing t-shirt and jeans, and they look at them... khalid and atif think they are hot but hazim did not because he was still thinking about the girl he wants to marry. firdaus just looked for a second and never look again.

Atif realised what firdaus was doing. and then he asked why he did that?.. then firdaus explained that as a muslim we should not see women as a sex symbol... by doing that i am respecting them and protecting my sight.. and Allah give us sight to see His creation and praise his creation and not to fulfill our desire... because in the Hereafter all of our body parts will be our witness for our doings and we cannot defend ourself..and he continued looking at them will just give me more sin and will also give them more sin..

and then hazim overheard them and ask then how we will find a wife if we are like that? firdaus explained...each of us is destined to have a partner and Allah is the only one knows how we will end up... we just have to pray and do our best to search for the right one...

hazim asked again... how we want to find if we cant look at them?

firdaus answered well in an islamic way if u have found someone.. u can ask for marriage.. before u do that u can do taaruf.. where u try to know each other in the presence of family...

then atif said.. and then u get married ..that is not enough.. why dont date first..i mean just the two of them

firdaus said... that is haram... eventhough you have good intention there will always be setan as the the third person and will try to lure you to do more haram... and to think of it ..the things dat u do in dating and marriage is all the same ... it isjust more commitment and then the big difference is one is halal and another is haram... so why take the haram when the halal will have the same gain...and even more gain with Allah's blessing...

to be continue...

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